The world begins at a kitchen table. No matter what, we must eat to live.
The gifts of earth are brought and prepared, set on the table. So it has been since creation, and it will go on.
We chase chickens or dogs away from it. Babies teethe at the corners. They scrape their knees under it.
It is here that children are given instructions on what it means to be human. We make men at it, we make women.
At this table we gossip, recall enemies and the ghosts of lovers.
- From Perhaps the World Ends Here by Joy Harjo.
We gather with our loved ones to reaffirm who we are and to validate the lives we live. So much of our time with friends and family is spent recalling the past. The stories of triumph and failure, loss and new life, happiness and despair all add up to define the contours of our horizon. They shape our understanding of people, places and things. Are we not so integrally intertwined with this world of stories that if we were to lose it, would we not lose our self as well?
But the past is gone and in its place are memories. But memories are fickle and fleeting. They are stories that change with the weather, and no two people ever occupy the same space and time. What was once seminal can quickly lose significance, while mundane moments can suddenly distinguish themselves. The stories we chose to bring forth and share, speak of how something is recalled, and in their telling they shape the present and affect the future.
What does the word 'home' bring to mind? Is it a place, or our kin? Is it in the memories of our childhood? Or is it something else, entirely? These stories help us reflect on what home can be.
Objects, despite being inanimate, often carry stories of their own. They are shaped by our world and we use them to shape others. Sometimes these objects outlive their original owners while other times, they outlive their utility. These stories tell tales of such objects.
Childhood is a time for exploration and discovery. The first spaces we explore are often the places we call home. These spaces come alive with the people we live with, our family. Following their lead, we come into our own but they remain integral to our identity.
Our families make us. We are shaped by the values they hold dear, whether we adopt them or rebel against them. These stories tell of families: happy and unhappy, each unique in their own way, but all alike in connecting us.
Identity is not just about the grand narratives we follow, it also is tied to the smallest things we do every day. Conscious or unconscious, big or small, our customs tie us to our ancestors, relatives and communities in an intricate web, as captured by these stories.
As we grow older, we face branching paths in our lives. While the circumstances of our birth and families cannot be a conscious choice, we can pick the circles we move in and the ideas we associate with. Although even these choices are influenced by who we already are, this process of picking and discarding layers of identities determines who we become.
Our friends are those we choose to walk beside in life’s journey. They share our joys, struggles and fondest memories. These stories, featuring friendships, give a glimpse into our own self through others.
One of the crucial aspects of our self-identity seems to be our need to belong. By blending in with others who share our experiences and values, we dissolve parts of ourselves, yet also acquire new clay to shape ourselves which is evidenced in these stories.
Amisha Karki, Anmol Paudel, Bishal Yonjan
Bishal Yonjan
Anmol Paudel
Amisha Karki
Neolinx
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Pranab Man Singh, Suvani Singh
Amish Raj Mulmi, Damak Public Library, Josue Rivera-Olds, Kopila Valley School, Lincoln Reading Lounge, Prateebha Tuladhar, Sujan Chitrakar, Sulav Bhatta and Yukta Bajracharya,
Aishwarya Baidar, Amisha Karki, Anmol Paudel, Jyoti BK, Nistha Tripathi, Ritu Rajbanshi, Shaipa Pandey and Surendra Joshi
Aishwarya Baidar, Amisha Karki, Anmol Paudel, Nistha Tripathi, Ritu Rajbanshi and Shaipa Pandey
Abhishek Dhungel, Ahsan Raza, Aishwarya Baidar, Ajay Mishra, Almeera Durrani, Anju Timilsina Ghimire, Anmol Paudel, Archana Shah, Arooj Iqbal, Ashish Adhikari, Avishek Bist, Ayesha Shabbir, Azka Amjad, Bidhya Khadka, Bina Nemkul, Bishnu Raj Bhatta, Darshane Khar, Deepa Bohora, Dibya Raj Khadka, Dishu Maharjan, Eliza Gautam, Eugen Maharjan, Hareem Idrees, Hina Iqbal, Kamal Shrestha, Kripa Maharjan, Krisha Dahal, Nisha Karki, Rajeela Shrestha, Ritesh Karn, Riti Shrestha, Ritu Rajbanshi, Rupa Thapa, Sapana Limbu, Sauhard, Shaileshwori Sharma, Shaipa Pandey, Sheryar Khan, Shova Pokharel Bhattarai and Sumana Shakya
Akrit Shrestha, Amisha Karki, Bishal Yonjan, Deepa Bohora, Nistha Tripathi, Pranab Man Singh, Rashmi Shrestha, Ritu Rajbanshi, Shefali Upreti, Sumitra Bogati and Suvani Singh
Published in 2020 by U.S. Embassy’s Book Bus Nepal